Today I celebrate my 58th lap around the sun. Every year I take a picture the morning on my birthday and post a birthday blog. Over the last year, I’ve thought a lot about my “why”. Much of my why has to do with fitness, health, bodybuilding, and making a positive impact on the world. Please read further as I reflect and share my thoughts about this last year.
A beautiful soul came into my life 18 months ago. As a birthday present 1 year ago, she gave me the perfect read for where I am in my life. Viktor Frankl’s book, Man’s Search For Meaning, recounts surviving Auschwitz as a Jewish prisoner during WWII. It’s an amazing story that I recommend everyone read. Frankl reflects deeply and attempts to explain how, as so many people died, some managed to survive. He concludes that the people who found their “why”, and were lucky enough to avoid the gas chambers, were able to endure the daily horrors and survive.
To be clear, I’m in no way trying to compare my life to Frankl’s. He experienced horrors I can’t begin to imagine. I’m aware of my privilege and good fortune. His book helped me to live with more gratitude and inspires me to work harder to find my why.
In grade school and middle school, I was super skinny and geeky looking. Kids teased me and laughed at me. They told me I had toothpicks for arms. I was bullied frequently. I remember crying to my mother, pretending to be sick and, begged her to let me stay home from school. I was afraid of what the older bigger mean boys were going to do to me. I was traumatized as a child.
Late in high school I discovered weightlifting. I took steroids all through college. I went from a 150-pound weakling to a jacked 210-pound nightclub bouncer. I also studied fight styles and became proficient with weapons. I vowed to never fear anyone. No one ever again told me I had toothpicks for arms. Even today, as a Professional Natural Bodybuilder, I use my childhood trauma as fuel to train harder and psych myself up for competitions.
Now, after 40+ years of bodybuilding, I ask myself if this is part of my why. I believe it is. I chose this path. As I get older, I find bodybuilding much more than healing childhood trauma. I get more and more feedback that I inspire people. Part of what now fuels me to continue bodybuilder is to inspire.
Making a positive impact in the world is very rewarding. I try my best to be a walking example of the benefits of healthy nutrition and daily exercise. I’m aware the older I get, the more of an anomaly I become. Few 58-year-old people are seriously fit. I’m often asked how I’m able to maintain a fit lean physique at my age.
It’s a simple formula. I eat whole intact foods and exercise daily. My meal plan consists of a little fruit, nuts, seeds, lots of green vegetables, and a moderate amount of animal proteins like cage free eggs, wild caught cold water fish, free range poultry, and grass-fed organic beef. I do resistance training and cardio exercise daily. In addition, I work on my mental health, reduce stress, and try to get enough sleep.
Much of the answer to the question, what is my why, is the same answer to why I continue bodybuilding at 58. I want to maintain my long-term health and I want to inspire others to be their best version of themselves, at any age.
Thank You for reading. I hope in some small way I’ve inspired you.
Sincerely,
JD Griffin
PNBA Professional Natural Bodybuilder, Certified Nutrition Coach, Author: Get Fit Lean and Keep Your Day Job